Because children are tiny flower buds..
By Ashita Adhikari, FHI Delhi
It’s apt to say that children are like tiny flower buds. They bloom into beautiful flowers with the right development and nurture or else they hesitate to open up their petals to the world. Everyone at Fly Higher India NGO – FHI understands this simple thing. Being a volunteer has taught me how creatively kids learn and inculcate basic and important values from simple activities and games. It’s amazing when I realize that I don’t just play games and dance with these children but slowly and slightly make them a better version of themselves. It’s like watering the buds which helps it to grow, yet we can’t see it blooming right in front of our eyes. The kids are alike.
At the end of every event, when we bid our goodbyes to the kids, our heart may ache temporarily but what the children have ingrained in themselves is permanent. And these developments and skills are not only limited to the children we interact with but to us, as volunteers. Everyone learns and grows in this process and that is why it’s so beautifully synergistic in it’s effects.
I realised this at my very first event of FHI Delhi. What is the creative activity you would think of doing with a bunch of lots of kids? The first idea to strike would be Art!
When we value someone’s creativity, especially of children, we help them feel valued, raising their self esteem. Art leads to a very simple but highly important skill – Creative Thinking. The kids might not realize on their own but what they were doing on the sheets were not merely drawings but a whole lot of self expression, observation and creativity combined. Art helps us to be focussed and disciplined. Art simply is an open doorway to boost a child’s emotional development.
Similar exercise was conducted in a girl’s shelter home where they were divided into four teams and every team had to make a poster on the topic ‘Hope’. Moreover to boost their confidence levels, we declared it a competition between the teams. The funniest part was where the girls began fighting on which team they’d want to go as everyone wanted to be with their friends but we teamed them up randomly.
Art plus Team work! Every team was provided with a large chart paper and the girls huddled around it to complete the poster within an hour. The skill being delivered here was collaboration, imagination and social development. Working in a group, we saw them sitting in a circle around the chart, adjusting and compromising with their teammates to make a fabulous poster and win.
At the same venue, we also held a small interactive session with the girls to discuss about the health and sanitation issues concerned with menstruation. It’s important for us to make our future generations feel free and confident while talking about such issues ,that they don’t consider it a tabboo to talk about it. The girls actively participated in the discussion and also asked questions after a while of hesitation. Curiosity is important. Learning to question without hesitating is very important. The girls were shy at first but came out with their confusions eventually. Such sessions aim at physical, emotional and social development all at once. Having skills to maintain their health begins from the very lower level of providing information about the subject. I was impressed when a girl came up to me and said,” Didi ye sab to ladko ko bhi sikhana chahiye” These girls are the future female generation and it’s so empowering to know that in her world where she’s always been taught to keep her periods some sort of a secret, she wants to fly and wants it to be talked as a natural thing that it is.
Every game and activity contributes to the children’s skills and development, no matter how small the result is. Childhood shapes the personality of the child and the personality is shaped by his skills and development picked up since a small age.
So is there anything better when you are a part of something so great which makes your nation’s future generation learn and develop into humans with strong personalities while doing fun and games? I think not.
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